tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4324287462448063195.post241588091046095013..comments2023-12-14T17:05:49.029+00:00Comments on Growing through submission: my Rules- updated 26/1/10D's shttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09296899118092594320noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4324287462448063195.post-66987824849559305242010-03-13T16:18:24.569+00:002010-03-13T16:18:24.569+00:00In response to heather ... I'm a Dom, and have...In response to heather ... I'm a Dom, and have been for many years, and always struggle with the gray area of treating a sub in a degrading way. In my opinion, having my sub sit at my feet is a little degrading to her, and I personally do not like to degrade her. I don't need degradation to feel dominant. In this case I would feel better if she were sitting next to me and our knees were touching. I do like her angled towards me, as that appears that she is being attentive to me. I feel the same way about me sleeping in bed and her on the floor. It's just not my style.Paulhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16795414891524996449noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4324287462448063195.post-31301656272291778932010-03-08T09:17:23.911+00:002010-03-08T09:17:23.911+00:00Hi Heather! Glad you found me. To be honest i'...Hi Heather! Glad you found me. To be honest i'm not sure hpw common this is. It was something we discussed because we have 2 young children and i, in particular, have a close family and lots of vanilla friends so we wanted to find a subtle way for D to still feel i'm focussed on Him in some way. The agreement is that i am trusted to do as much as appropriate really without it being something that others would pick up on.<br />Hope that explains it?<br />sD's shttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09296899118092594320noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4324287462448063195.post-52338158110027472442010-03-08T04:37:51.502+00:002010-03-08T04:37:51.502+00:00This post was fascinating. Thanks for sharing. :)
...This post was fascinating. Thanks for sharing. :)<br /><br />I'm wondering about #6 under Sex & Submission, is that a common practice in D/s relationships? Just curious.Shhh....https://www.blogger.com/profile/10275882923671090387noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4324287462448063195.post-85638393013315877652010-01-26T17:01:30.693+00:002010-01-26T17:01:30.693+00:00Thank you for sharing these. I don't use any r...Thank you for sharing these. I don't use any rules in my relationship with Jess but it has been something were discussing. I do like to read about the rules other bloggers have to see how it effects them.........Kara XOXOXOK & Jhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08814495733850784874noreply@blogger.com