Friday, 4 June 2010

An adjustment

The full orgasm denial just wasn't really working for us for various reasons. 
We're experimenting with a new thing:
Over breakfast we talk about what we've got on for our days, how busy we are etc.
At some time before He leaves for work, D then gives me a number which indicated how many times He wants me to orgasm for Him before He gets home. 
So if He wants me horny and gagging for it it's likely to be a big fat zero, quite often though it's one or two and He hasn't yet but i guess He could choose some ridiculously high number.


It makes so much difference to feel like i really am doing it for Him. i think it's  helping us get more in tune with each other too.


My number today? 2

3 comments:

  1. This sounds like a great idea. I hope it works for you and makes your relationship better.

    FD

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  2. Oh I hope for your sake you don't get a high number... I can tell you from experience that once you reach about 10ish, it really starts to hurt and it gets harder to actually have an orgasm. It's hellish, really.

    Hope this new things works out for you, though. I don't do well with orgasm denial. Kinda sends me in a fury.

    *hugs*

    turiya

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  3. My Sir has denied me orgasms a few time but it didn't really work out for me either. I think it's more than just sexual. I need to release to
    help me cope with other areas of life...work, kids etc..

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