D and i are having our own made up version of a collaring ceremony tonight. We felt it might really help both of us to change our mindset and we also wanted something to mark the progression of our relationship- we've discussed a few times how D/s feels to us like a step on beyond marriage - a kind of deeper commitment.
From my point of view, i'm also hoping that the visual reminder will help D feel that He really doesn't have to be gentle and loving with me all the time- not that i don't appreciate that He is also!
From my point of view, i'm also hoping that the visual reminder will help D feel that He really doesn't have to be gentle and loving with me all the time- not that i don't appreciate that He is also!
Anyway, i'm so excited but first we have to get these kids into bed !
Hopefully i'll post up some details tomorrow
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giddy as a school girl is my pet. sweet and endearing i find this quality in her to enjoy these moments. and so much about. this is why it feels right on so many levels to mark our passage with a symbol. a collar.
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You two have a great time -- we've never done anything like this ourselves -- but rituals are important -- they are shared experiences that bond us all closer together.
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Good luck on your collaring ceremony. I would think it will be very meaningful and symbolic for both of you. Hope you share the details.
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