His major issue is that i am impatient and He has suggested that temporarily stopping reading stuff on the internet might help me to slow down and just 'be' with Him so i am on internet restrictions at the mo and the blog role on the side of my blog has suddenly become the most enticing place ever!
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will you still be writing?
ReplyDeleteI know you two are new at this but I hope the Internet restriction doesn't last too long. Even though he thinks it may make you impatient, it also gives you a look at how other couples live and you can take what you like and leave the rest.
ReplyDeleteAnd you being impatient probably means you are open to doing anything he wants you to do. I hope he takes the lead and realizes that you want to submit to him and do what he wants.
You can tell him you will be patient and see what he wants you to do but that a good sub needs and yearns to be controlled. For the sake of both of you, I hope he does that.]
And good luck on your journey.
FD
That sounds rather like blaming the messenger. But then as a blogger, I would say that!
ReplyDeleteI totally get this
ReplyDeleteI've grounded myself from D/s research for periods of time and have grounded myself from reading certain blogs permanently because they were bothering me and making me obsess about my choices and what the future holds.
Take time to enjoy each step of your journey together -- you don't have to push on to the next and the next and the next thing.
and yeah -- I know that this is ironic advice coming from me.
sfp
Sir J- i'll definitely still be writing, both of us really believe in it's positives. Probably not on Sundays though.
ReplyDeleteFD- i don't think the restriction will last long- in fact i have a specific task today already. i think we both agree that the internet can be a positive thing and D does generally really like my enthusiasm but the problem is that i am a v impatient (i like to call it driven!) person and i tend to read and think 'i want that' or 'this is so hot' and it can lead to attempting to top from the bottom. The restriction is just designed to remind me to slow down and accept and enjoy the pace that D sets. i think if i can prove i can do that He'll lift the restriction- i'm allowed to ask once a day so He can assess and decide.
DD-i'm sorry if it sounded like that- if anything it's just that your writing is too good! It makes me greedy hee hee!
sjp- it's good to know it's not just me! i remember reading about this on your blog actually so it's really helpful to know you've already gone through it- thanks!
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