Saturday, 10 April 2010

openness is next to godliness

The communication thing is ON! We are doing great at keeping things open between us right now. i even managed to not get stroppy when He decided He just wanted to veg in front of the TV rather than spank me last night! The way He talked to me so i knew exactly where He was at just felt so different to anything that's happened before- i was able to understand that it wasn't because He wasn't interested, or anything i'd done. He was just tired.

God i hope we can keep it like this!


  1. Congratulations to you both. Communication is the MOST important part of TTWD. Sounds like you both are discussing feelings that may have not been talked about before. It is so nice to know what the other is thinking. Keep it up and enjoy your discovering each other through your love and relationship.

  2. I'm really glad for you guys. Open communication really makes such a huge difference!



  3. Yes, let's hope you can keep it that way. If you can keep communicating, you should be on the right track.


  4. Thanks everyone! we're definitely getting there- i had a bit of a blip this weekend but D has dealt with it very effectively and we've both managed to keep the communication open through it so things are still looking good atm.